He told me to “F” off! Wah!!!

Well this one went quick.  It seems when you ask the AWESOME question “Can you take a picture of yourself  holding up a sign with today’s date on it?”  Here are the responses I get when I ask this question.

  • “I can’t right now, but I will later hon”
  • Why?  Why should I do that?”
  • “We’re not allowed cameras when we’re deployed”
  • They block me right away
  • NEW:  They tell you to F off.  LOL!!!

Some of you may be saying this one doesn’t sound like a scammer.  But from my experience (and research) when they start off with compliments like this, they are fake.

So allow me to introduce you to:  Rupert David.

Rupert DavidRupert David pic

He will be added to the Liars Wall of Disdain.  And I checked my wall and he is already there in this same picture.  I knew I saw him before.  I love it when I’m right.  🙂


First one of 2018…Here we go…

First off, Happy 2018!!!  The fakers and scammers haven’t taken a break.  They are in full swing.  I think in the last week, between Instagram and Twitter I’ve had about eight guys contact me.  LOL!!  No worries because I am on FULL alert.

I know a while back I had read and shared with you all to see if they are real to ask them to take a picture of themselves holding up 3 fingers.  Well now I ask them to hold a sign up with today’s date on it.  Of course none of them do it.

Today’s contestant, is impersonating a Major General in the Marines.  If you google him you will find out stuff about him.

Below is our conversation.  And I tried something new this time.  🙂  See if you can see what I did.


Joe OSterman 1

Joe OSterman 2


Okay, first thing I did was I didn’t mess around, I went in for the kill right away.  After a few messages I could tell in the language he wasn’t real.

Second thing I did was lie about knowing someone in the Marine Corp to contact about him.  As you can see he immediately blocked me.  This conversation didn’t last long at all.

I did email someone at an marine address to tell them about the fake twitter profile especially since this man is highly ranked.

I know I am the perfect target for these scammers.  I fit their profile.  Just to remind you of what they look for:

  • Older women who are single
  • Those who seem unattractive (Which I am NOT)
  • On the Heavy side (As my grandmother would say, “More to love”)
  • Lonely (NOT ME)
  • Desperate (NOT ME)

Anyone who knows me knows I am not lonely or desperate.  I am older, but I am gorgeous and I am on the heavy side but I like me just the way I am.

So if you are reading this, and you think you feel like you are lonely and desperate and don’t feel good about yourself?  DON’T FEEL LIKE THAT!  You are a wonderful person and the right guy will come along.  Never let anyone make you feel anything less.

And of course my #1 piece of advise is…